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How to Replace a Baseboard Heating Cover in an Hour or Less
The number one hit for ‘replacing baseboard heating covers’ is a This Old House Episode that looks pretty daunting. My son and I just knocked this out in less than an hour. Here’s what we did: Measure We had 3 … Continue reading
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Carnegie 21.3.12: How to Win Friends and Influence People -PRINCIPLE 12 Throw down a challenge.
Carnegie 21.3.12: How to Win Friends and Influence People -PRINCIPLE 12 Throw down a challenge. Pages 228 – 231 Appeal to people’s nobler vision (as called out in Principle 10), and then enlist them in the challenge of achieving it. … Continue reading
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Carnegie 20.3.11: How to Win Friends and Influence People – PRINCIPLE 11 Dramatize your ideas.
Carnegie 20.3.11: How to Win Friends and Influence People – PRINCIPLE 11 Dramatize your ideas. Pages 223 – 227 With Twitter, Instagram and Youtube – we live today in an age of showmanship and promotion. Carnegie’s guidance from 100 years … Continue reading
Carnegie 19.3.10: How to Win Friends and Influence People – PRINCIPLE 10 Appeal to the nobler motives.
Carnegie 19.3.10: How to Win Friends and Influence People – PRINCIPLE 10 Appeal to the nobler motives. Pages 217 – 222 Insults that start with, “You *just* want to…” are vicious. In them, the aggressor calls out that the other … Continue reading
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Carnegie 18.3.09: How to Win Friends and Influence People -PRINCIPLE 9 Be sympathetic with the other person’s ideas and desires – What Everybody Wants
Pages 208 – 216 Carnegie here builds off of earlier points – those around us have needs, and we must recognize those needs. Sometimes, as with Principle 3, the need is for us to admit we are wrong. For us … Continue reading
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Carnegie 17.3.08: How to Win Friends and Influence People – Pt 3, PRINCIPLE 8 Try honestly to see things from the other person’s point of view – A Formula That Will Work Wonders for You
Carnegie 17.3.08: How to Win Friends and Influence People – Pt 3, PRINCIPLE 8 Try honestly to see things from the other person’s point of view.- A Formula That Will Work Wonders for You Pages 202 – 208 To have … Continue reading
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Carnegie 16.3.07: PRINCIPLE 7 Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers – How to Get Cooperation
Pages 196 – 201. If you’re working with a customer or business partner, it is always helpful if they personally support the new idea you’re pursuing. If they are the initiator of the idea, if the idea is truly theirs … Continue reading
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Carnegie 15.3.06: PRINCIPLE 6 Let the other person do a great deal of the talking – The Safety Valve in Handling Complaints
Pages 190 – 195. Carnegie builds off Principle 5 – once the other party is saying “yes” – encourage them to talk. Use your conversational skills to keep them going, and rather than lecture them about some topic important to … Continue reading
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Carnegie 14.3.05: PRINCIPLE 5 Get the other person saying “yes, yes” immediately – The Secret of Socrates
Pages 182 – 189. From a book chapter standpoint, Principle 5 flows logically after Principle 4. We’re taught to begin in a friendly way, and now that guidance is further tightened. Don’t just begin friendly – begin with a goal … Continue reading


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